The Chinese concept of dating is also influenced by Confucianism.
Confucius said: "your word and a friend."
"Letter" can be interpreted as the faithful here, the good faith.
This remark reflected the Chinese friend view, namely the "letter" is the basis of the interaction between friends.
Chinese society is relatively stable, people are reluctant to contact with strangers and exchanges, and pay attention to the longer, the better.
When deciding whether or not to xu datong to court hearing, xu datong invited quinlan to do his own defence lawyer, although he seems to repeat himself a intellectual property lawyers, and asked xu datong find a counterpart's lawyer, but xu datong insisted that please quinlan, because quinlan was his good friend, he know your love for son, xu datong very trust him, and gave quinlan claim son this matter please.
Quinlan was unexpectedly at the hearing that xu datong really played his own son, it is more make the children's welfare homes that xu datong child abuse.
Therefore, xu datong in anger to resign, and tell the way different, don't lust for!"
Xu datong think quinlan sells his.
China has the sentence is called "a friend in need is a friend indeed", should "do anything" for his friends.
However, americans work in dating on the weight of the order is: the method, principle and mood.
That is to say, to speak, the law is reasonable, the last is brutal that contrary to Chinese friends view before and after.
