连接EF、FG、GH、EH.
∵E、F、G、H分别是AB、BC、CD和AD的中点
∴EH∥BD∥FG,且EH=FG=BD/2=3
EF∥AC∥GH,且EF=GH=AC/2=3
∵EG^2=EH^2+GH^2-2*EH*GH*Cos∠EHG
=(3)^2+(3)^2-2×3×3×Cos∠EHG
=18-18Cos∠EHG
FH^2=FG^2+GH^2-2*FG*GH*Cos∠FGH
=(3)^2+(3)^2-2×3×3×Cos(180°-∠EHG)
=18+18Cos∠EHG
∴EG^2+FH^2=36