Huntington provided “the civilized conflict” since 1993,has evoked the various countries' academic circles's widespread discussion.Looked in the human history,because culture (philosophy,religion,value idea) causes differently the conflict and the war are not rare,although is enters for the 21st century not to have the worldwide basis war,but local area war then unceasingly,in which without doubt politics,the economy are the conflict and the war extremely important reason,but the culture also in the quite great degree is firmly national and national,national and national,the region and the region conflict and the war reason,how melts the conflict even war which because this kind in the cultural reason causes,perhaps Kong Zi proposes “is friendly but not at the expense of principles” has the significance principle extremely.
In the Chinese history,always thought “and” and “with” is the different two concepts,has so-called has “and distinguishes with it”.For example "National language Zheng Language":“The husband and the solid biology,discontinue with the piece.Puts down him by him to say the sum,but therefore can abundant long the thing turn over to it; If by the same benefit with,abandons it.Therefore Wang Yitu,with the gold,the wood,the water,the fire is first mixed,becomes all things.”Obviously “and” and “with” is two different concepts.“Puts down him by him”,is take different and related as the premise,the different thing intercoordination advances together,can develop; “By same benefit with”,then is by the same thing superimposition,its result only can suffocate the vitality.The China traditional culture highest ideal is “the myriad things and nurtures does not harm,said parallel does not contradict.”("Doctrine of the mean") “the myriad things and nurture” and “parallel” are “different”; “Does not harm”,“does not contradict” is “combination”.This thought has provided the inexhaustible thought fountainhead for the multicultural coexistence.